10 January 2008 - In loving
memory of Steven (Jnr) John Lennon - Beautiful Boy
(audio plays in seperate
window) * Beautiful
Boy was to have been played at the start of the service but was
overlooked so I have included it here for background while
viewing I can't really "welcome" you here because I so much wish
this page had no need to exist, but life sometimes deals us a card we
simply cannot understand so I have dedicated these pages to the memory of
our beloved son Steven Cook who tragically lost his life on the evening of
December 30, 2007 near Mt. Hiwi Lodge, Waverly (between Wanganui &
Hawera). (This page will be updated as more information becomes available so
please check back from time to time. Last updated December 14th
2012.) Steven was just 22 years old and was taken from all of us
much too soon. We love and miss him so very much it hurts. Our thoughts remain with his good friend Matt Storey who
was in the vehicle with Steven, and we are very conscious that but for the
grace of God, the outcome could easily have been two deaths and we thank
God that Matt's life was spared that night. Steven lives on in our hearts and our memories and there
will not be a day where any of us will not think of him, his cheery voice
and his cheeky smile. ** (see note below) To get a full measure of
Steven, you are invited to visit his Bebo
(cookee) site * Caution (if
you are easily offended) *, which is now being maintained by his
two sisters, Dawn & Crystabelle. Steven's own Bebo profile is public, but you won't be able
to view those of any of his friends and family who have chosen to keep
their profiles private and therefore only accessible by those added as
'friends'. And please be WARNED, some of the
comments and content might also make some of you blush, such is the language of the modern young
person but we would not have it any other way, that is who Steven was and
love is unconditional. ** (Update 2011 - Since I created this page,
Facebook has pretty much taken over from Bebo - Steven's sister Crystal
created a Facebook support page "Proud to be a mate of COOKEE" in honour of
Steven). All are welcome to visit and comment, share a memory
etc. I have also added a number of videos of Steven to my You Tube
account. Again, mostly shot by his mates so the language is
'colourful' at best, but they captured him as he was. In fact,
Steven was generally very polite and nicely spoken, and rarely heard
swearing for no reason. Some if his friends are another matter (yes
Sam, that means you). But I would not dream of trying to censor
any content, it would be quite pointless but you have been
warned!! More will be added as and when I can get through old
family videos including hopefully some priceless childhood
videos. This one in particular is just absolutely precious to
me..... :-) The following links of scanned newspaper clippings may
open in reduced size depending on your browser settings. If this happens,
simply click on the image and it should enlarge for easy reading, then use
your browser 'back' button to return to this page. I put this page
together very quickly so some refinement may be done as time permits. I
aimed for content rather than style. NEWSPAPER ARTICLES OF THE
TRAGEDY (** May be upsetting for some - but we
have no choice except to live with it.) The above link will open a new page with copies
of all the nespaper stories, notices and photos, plus a map showing
where the tragedy happened.
THE SERVICE & EULOGIES There was a turnout of around 500 people at Steven's
service, we had around 300 "Order of Service" sheets printed up
and they went very quickly. If you did not get one, or were unable to make
it to the service, I have them available to download and print as a PDF
file. To recreate the sheet as original, you will need to print both pages
(1, 2), one on each side,
it simply folds in the middle. (It's best in colour) The following link will take you to the EULOGY (please read) that Steven's
Mum and I spoke for Steven at his funeral service. I know there are many
questions surrounding the apparent pointless death of such a vibrant young
man with so much to offer. I cannot answer many of those questions as I
have them myself. However my personal Christian faith has given me the
strength to deal with this, in the full knowledge that the God I believe
in is a merciful God who loves each and every one of us more than we can
ever comprehend, and has a plan none of us can (yet)
understand. I don't aim to get all "preachy" here, but our human
spirituality cannot be denied, and although I also respect that there are
other viewpoints, I can only personally view things from the perspective
and teachings of our Christian God as they have been taught to me.
Christianity is not just a Religion, it's a Relationship. Introduction to Steven Cook as read by our good friend Bruce
Stormer (officiating)... Others also spoke at Steven's service and I have obtained
as many of those personal testimonials as I could. Tributes - From Family and friends